\(9r^2+3r-2=(3r-1)(3r+2)\)
\(\frac{1}{9r^2+3r-2}=\frac{1}{3(3r-1)}-\frac{1}{3(3r+2)}\)
\(\sum_{r=m}^{3m}\frac{1}{9r^2+3r-2}=\frac13\left(\frac1{3m-1}-\frac1{9m+2}\right)\) (telescoping)
\(=\frac{2m+1}{(3m-1)(9m+2)}\)
\(\sum_{r=1}^{N}\frac{1}{9r^2+3r-2}=\frac13\left(\frac12-\frac1{3N+2}\right)\)
\(N\to\infty\Rightarrow S_\infty=\frac16\)
\(S_\infty-S_n=\frac{1}{3(3n+2)}=\frac1{9n+6}<0.004=\frac1{250}\)
\(9n+6>250\Rightarrow n>\frac{244}{9}\)
\(n=27:\ \frac1{249}>0.004;\quad n=28:\ \frac1{258}<0.004\)
\(\therefore\ n=28\)